My Personal “Old is Gold” Celebrity Experience

 

When executed successfully, a celebrity endorsement lets you leverage their fame and influence. But, even if all that’s happened is that you’ve met a former celebrity, you can leverage the nostalgia and authenticity it provides. “Brands have long realized that tapping into fond memories isn’t just a feel-good moment; it’s a powerful marketing strategy,” the mediaant.com points out.

Fifteen years ago, as president of my Indiana chapter of the National Speakers’ Association, I attended the NSA Winter Conference in Nashville, Tennessee. Country music star Mel Tillis led a breakout discussion, ending by inviting all of us to attend the Grand Ole Opry performance he was hosting later that day.

There are two special points Mel Tillis made during the question/answer session about communicating with an audience (None of us could help noticing his stutter, which he explained would disappear when he was performing music):

  1.  “I’m always coming up with new anecdotes and stories.” It’s important for any speaker to keep coming up with new anecdotes and stories to illustrate each point, Tillis stressed. That’s a lesson content marketers need to learn, for sure, since maintaining high rankings on search engines means creating content again and again over long periods of time. Anecdotes and stories keep the material fresh.
  2. 2. “Sure, I get tired, like if I have to sing ‘Coca Cola Cowboy’ one more time, I think I’m gonna die. But what you need to do is act like it’s the first time you’ve ever done it. After all, every time I walk out there, it’s a different audience.” In “pull marketing” through content, you are attracting only searchers who have a need relating to what you do, what you sell, or what you know about. You may be “tired” of “same old, same old”, but, for most of those searchers, it will be the first time they’ve ever read your content.

 No, I don’t have a celebrity endorsement from country singer Mel Tillus (The singer died in 2017, after performing onstage for fifty-two years), but I wanted to share with my content marketing friends the nostalgia and authenticity of this memorable and inspiring “Grand Ole Opry” encounter.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Clarity Before Content: Why Trying to Talk to Everyone Hurts Your Message

“Trying to reach everyone means you reach no one.”

It’s a phrase we hear often in marketing circles, but most business owners nod politely and keep casting a wide net. They fear that choosing a niche means turning down opportunities. After all, if your services can help everyone, shouldn’t your message try to include them all?

As a strategic consultant and the creator of Define Your Light’s Roadmapping Sessions, I see this hesitation constantly. Clients come in with good intentions and great ideas, but they’re stuck in what I call the content fog — producing a mix of blogs, social posts, and website copy that sounds helpful… but doesn’t land.

Why? Because the message is diluted.
And usually, the root problem isn’t the marketing — it’s the lack of clarity.

I’ve Been There Myself

For a while, I wrote almost exclusively to parentpreneurs. I thought that was my niche – other business owners juggling growing companies while raising kids. And while I absolutely care about that segment (I’m one of them), I realized something important: the people who were actually hiring me weren’t choosing me because of our shared family dynamics.

They were choosing me because I brought calm to their chaos. Because I could translate their ideas into action. Because I made strategy feel personal.

The label didn’t matter. The clarity did.

Why Content Needs a Compass

That realization reshaped my business, my content, and it’s now at the heart of the Roadmapping process I offer. I believe in Clarity Before Content — the idea that messaging only works when it’s grounded in a deep understanding of who you’re speaking to, what they need, and what you want to be known for.

One client, overwhelmed by a sea of possible audiences, told me:

“I feel like I can help everyone. I don’t want to box myself in.”

She wasn’t alone — it’s one of the most common things I hear.

So we slowed down and worked through a focused series of exercises designed to bring her audience into sharper view. Instead of staying stuck in vague generalities, she began to see patterns — the clients who energized her, the problems she solved with ease, and the places where her expertise created the biggest transformation.

Through this process, she realized she wasn’t narrowing — she was refining. Her message stopped trying to speak to everyone and started resonating with the right ones. And with that clarity, her content began working harder — not because she was producing more, but because every word had direction.

By the end, her messaging shifted from general to magnetic.
Her website, emails, and even how she described her work in conversation became clearer and more confident — not because she changed her offer, but because she finally knew who she was talking to.

The Truth About Niching

Niching isn’t about cutting people out — it’s about drawing the right people closer.
It’s how you stop chasing and start attracting.
When your content reflects true alignment, the impression not only lands — it lasts.

That’s the kind of clarity I love helping clients discover — whether it’s in a full Roadmapping Session or a more nimble Marketing Sprint. These focused sessions are all about cutting through the noise, finding the message that truly resonates, and shaping content that connects with the right people.

That’s what clarity creates.
Not just better strategy, but deeper connection.
With your work.
With your audience.
And with the business you’re building on purpose.


Today’s guest post was contributed by friend and fellow networker Erin Jernigan, business & nonprofit strategy consultant,  at Define Your Light. 215 804 6870   www.DefineYourLight.com.

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In Content Marketing, Aim for Signal, Not Noise

With 2.5 quintillion bytes of data created every day, the true test of leadership isn’t managing it all – it’s mining what matters, Jess Carter writes in the Indianapolis Business Journal.  The “noise” tends to derive, she explains, from three sources:

  • Internal (bottlenecks within your company or practice)
  • External (industry hype, competitor activities)
  • Data noise (metrics and un-validated insights)

True leaders do not chase each new trend, instead filtering the noise in search of signals, which tell those leaders either to remain on track to realize their own goals or that a “course correction” might be needed.

This IBJ article reminds me of the importance of including, in content marketing, owners’ opinions along with news and information. Whether it’s business-to-business or business-to-consumer content creation, the content needs to clarify what differentiates that business, that professional practice, or that organization from its peers. When online readers find have found their way to a post, article, or blog, one question they need answered is “Who lives here?” Providing information about products and services is important, but in terms of conveying meaning and offering perspective – that takes sharing opinion. 

At Say It For you, we know that, when we’re telling the story of a business or a practice to consumers, we choose, in each case, to “frame” that story a certain way. Chris Anderson, head of TED Talks, reminds speakers to do a jargon check based on audience research, eliminating technical terms and acronyms that will be unfamiliar to listeners. Beyond that, though, it is the “worldview” of the entrepreneurs themselves that must be “framed” in the content.

Carter refers to the “noise” that is created in any field, with a constant barrage of data and un-validated insights in the form of “news”. When it comes to content marketing, we’ve found at Say It For you, the word “news” can mean several different things:

  1. Your own news: You’re introducing a new employee or partner, a new product line or service. That news needs to be presented in such a way that readers will consider it relevant to their needs.
  2. Community news: You’re giving an update on “what’s-going-on-and-how-do-we-fit-in”.
  3. Industry or professional news that can affect your audience.

While content marketing provides the framework for sharing news, it’s the business owner’s or the professional practitioner’s opinion and perspective that helps readers “hear” the signals and ignore the “noise”.

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Getting-to-Know-Me Marketing

 

In One Great Speech, veteran speakers’ agent James Marshall Reilly tells compelling stories about dozens of successful speakers, teaching how to hone a message so that other people will pay to hear it… As I noted in this blog earlier this week, as content marketers, that’s precisely what we’re aiming to do – position our clients so that “other people”, namely their target audience, will want what it is they have to offer…

Personal branding is incredibly important, Reilly asserts. Take any of these rising companies (he cites TOMS Shoes and Zappos as examples). and “there are strong leaders in front of the brand”, he says. We feel like we know the CEO personally. “When we like the company or brand’s leader, their businesses do well.”

At Say It For You, we know that getting personal is a huge element in the success of any content marketing effort.  As Practical eCommerce’s Paul Chaney says about blogging, “Blogging consists of one person – or one company – communicating directly with consumers in an unfettered, unfiltered manner.” In practical terms, what that means is that content writers must focus on personal anecdotes and on the personal values of the business owners and practitioners offering products and professional services.

Marketing content may be about business, but it had better be about people as well, and that includes both online searchers and online blog content writers, both buyers and sellers. In fact, “Getting down and human” in business blogs is so important that it becomes a good idea for a business owner and professional to actually write about past mistakes and struggles.

At the same time, as cantata.com/mavinlink cautions, it’s important not to fall into the “TMI” trap, boring or shocking readers with overly personal, trite information. Using first and second person pronouns helps keep the blog conversational rather than either academic-sounding or sales-ey, we teach content writers. In fact, as I often emphasize, whether, as a business or practice owner you propose to do the content writing yourself or collaborate with a professional content writer, the very process of deciding what to include and how is one of self-discovery.

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Avoiding the Uncommon is a Common Marketing Mistake

To be considered for representation by an agency, aspiring speakers have to explain who they are, what they want to speak about, and why they’re qualified to do so, James Marshall Reilly explains in the book One Great Speech . While speaking agents don’t want to listen to your whole life story, Reilly notes, they are looking for something that separates you from the pack. Therefore, he advises, when looking for your magic bullet, consider pieces of information that you aren’t sharing with the agency and should be. Prior to becoming a biologist, were you a touring musician? An Eagle Scout? It’s not that you’re going to lecture about these topics, Reilly says.  It’s just that they help define you in a unique way plus make you relatable.

“Relatable” is the key word here.  As content marketers, we are interpreters, translating clients’ corporate message into human, people-to-people terms. People tend to buy when they see themselves in the picture and when they can relate emotionally to the person bringing them the message. That’s the reason I prefer using first and second person pronouns in blog posts and articles (over third person “reporting”). Marketing content that comes across as intimate, unique, even quirky, makes readers feel they’re connecting with real people. When content is filled with the company’s special brand of energy and passion, it is most likely to engage.

“Getting down and human” is so important, it becomes a good idea for a business or practice owner to actually reveal  past mistakes and struggles. Such revelations are very humanizing adding to the trust readers place in the people behind the business.  Why? What tends to happen is that stories of failure create feelings of empathy and admiration for the entrepreneurs or professional practitioners who overcame the effects of their own errors.

Like powerful speaker resumes, the key to powerful marketing content is to present experiences as accomplishments, revealing your personality, not only what jobs you’ve held. Assuming it’s not overdone, you’ll be rewarded for having a unique and authentic voice, particularly if personal stories are used as a means to an end – with the “end” being solving readers’ problems and filling their needs.

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