Harness Opinion Power When There’s No Single Right Answer
My granddaughter is getting married in a few months. I heard from her mother that what she would really appreciate is cash, but I don’t think cash is a good gift since it doesn’t show any thought. Is it OK to give her a physical gift, or should I respect her wishes and give her money? How much cash should I give?
Lizzie Post (great-great-granddaughter of Emily Post), replying in AARP Magazine, begins by acknowledging common differences of opinion on the subject of cash vs. tangible gifts: “Some people think cash gifts are crass; others think they are impersonal.” Post then offers a practical solution: “The true test is how you give it. Cash tucked inside a thoughtful handwritten card can make for a meaningful gift.”
The columnist then goes on to debunk a myth about cash gifts for a wedding: There’s no hard-and-fast rule. “You don’t have to ‘pay for your plate’ – an outdated notion that your gift should at least cover the cost of your meal. Let your budget guide the amount.”
“Advice columns have not gone anywhere. They have dispersed everywhere and in every type of media,” mediaupdate explains. “The appeal stems from the fact that, though we all feel unique, our problems tend to be shared, at least to some degree,” psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb suggests.
Instead of pitching products and services, a strategic content-driven approach provides information to prospects and customers to help them solve issues in their work or personal lives, the Content Marketing Institute explains. “Wouldn’t it be great if your customers looked forward to receiving your marketing? What if when they received it, they spent time engaging with it? “Help first”, not “sell first” is the principle that makes advice-column content marketing work.
When online readers find an article or blog post, one question they need answered is “Who lives here?” Providing information about products and services may be the popular way to create marketing content, but in terms of achieving Influencer status – it takes opinion, we’ve learned at Say It For You. What’s more, myth-debunking is one great use for content marketing. Many misunderstandings about a product or service present themselves in the natural order of business, in the form of questions and comments from readers and customers. Shining the light of day on that misinformation shines light on your own expertise. If your content is well written, perhaps with a bit of tongue in cheek, it can offer enlightenment in a way that engages searchers and keeps them coming back.
I like three things about the Lizzie Post piece about the wedding gift. The author:
- acknowledges (rather than disparages) different opinions on the subject
- offers a compromise (thoughtful note accompanying a gift of cash)
- debunks a myth (one has to “pay for one’s plate”)
When there’s simply no one right answer, harness opinion power!






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