Core Content Question: Sez Who?

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Earlier this week, in her guest post on our Say It For You blog, Erin Jernigan stressed the importance of choosing one’s niche audience before creating content. “Niching, she stressed, allows refining your message and rendering it much more powerful, creating a deeper connection.”

I thought about “niching” the other day, when, at one of my online networking groups, the discussion leader posed the following question: If you were to start a podcast today, what would you name it? My answer: “Sez Who?”. That’s because those “deeper connections” to which Erin alluded run in both directions.

When online readers find your content, not only is it important for you to have understood them and their needs and preferences, they need to know “who lives here” and be helped to understand you. That means that, in marketing a business, practice, or organization, we content creators absolutely must make clear “who lives here”, using opinion to clarify not only what differentiates that entity from its peers, but also what guiding principles are “held dear’ over there.

It’s true that, at Say It For You, I’ve been fond of saying that the “what” needs to come before the “who”, meaning that the first order of business in content marketing is writing about the audience and their needs. In other words, I have often advised, only after you’ve told them what’s in it for them if they continue reading, should you be writing about what you do, what you know, and what you know how to do.

Michelle Noel calls it “brand value”, saying that it’s no longer enough to offer great products and services, To build strong relationships, you must communicate:

  • Your purpose: Why do you exist?
  • Your vision: What do you aspire to do?
  • Your values: Who are you? What do you believe in?

Those “deeper connections” of which Erin Jernigan speaks? They run both ways. That’s why, were I to start a podcast, I’d name it “Sez Who?”.

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Clarity Before Content: Why Trying to Talk to Everyone Hurts Your Message

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“Trying to reach everyone means you reach no one.”

It’s a phrase we hear often in marketing circles, but most business owners nod politely and keep casting a wide net. They fear that choosing a niche means turning down opportunities. After all, if your services can help everyone, shouldn’t your message try to include them all?

As a strategic consultant and the creator of Define Your Light’s Roadmapping Sessions, I see this hesitation constantly. Clients come in with good intentions and great ideas, but they’re stuck in what I call the content fog — producing a mix of blogs, social posts, and website copy that sounds helpful… but doesn’t land.

Why? Because the message is diluted.
And usually, the root problem isn’t the marketing — it’s the lack of clarity.

I’ve Been There Myself

For a while, I wrote almost exclusively to parentpreneurs. I thought that was my niche – other business owners juggling growing companies while raising kids. And while I absolutely care about that segment (I’m one of them), I realized something important: the people who were actually hiring me weren’t choosing me because of our shared family dynamics.

They were choosing me because I brought calm to their chaos. Because I could translate their ideas into action. Because I made strategy feel personal.

The label didn’t matter. The clarity did.

Why Content Needs a Compass

That realization reshaped my business, my content, and it’s now at the heart of the Roadmapping process I offer. I believe in Clarity Before Content — the idea that messaging only works when it’s grounded in a deep understanding of who you’re speaking to, what they need, and what you want to be known for.

One client, overwhelmed by a sea of possible audiences, told me:

“I feel like I can help everyone. I don’t want to box myself in.”

She wasn’t alone — it’s one of the most common things I hear.

So we slowed down and worked through a focused series of exercises designed to bring her audience into sharper view. Instead of staying stuck in vague generalities, she began to see patterns — the clients who energized her, the problems she solved with ease, and the places where her expertise created the biggest transformation.

Through this process, she realized she wasn’t narrowing — she was refining. Her message stopped trying to speak to everyone and started resonating with the right ones. And with that clarity, her content began working harder — not because she was producing more, but because every word had direction.

By the end, her messaging shifted from general to magnetic.
Her website, emails, and even how she described her work in conversation became clearer and more confident — not because she changed her offer, but because she finally knew who she was talking to.

The Truth About Niching

Niching isn’t about cutting people out — it’s about drawing the right people closer.
It’s how you stop chasing and start attracting.
When your content reflects true alignment, the impression not only lands — it lasts.

That’s the kind of clarity I love helping clients discover — whether it’s in a full Roadmapping Session or a more nimble Marketing Sprint. These focused sessions are all about cutting through the noise, finding the message that truly resonates, and shaping content that connects with the right people.

That’s what clarity creates.
Not just better strategy, but deeper connection.
With your work.
With your audience.
And with the business you’re building on purpose.


Today’s guest post was contributed by friend and fellow networker Erin Jernigan, business & nonprofit strategy consultant,  at Define Your Light. 215 804 6870   www.DefineYourLight.com.

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Real Copy Has to Live in the Fridge

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Take a challenging aspect of your brand and turn that into a selling point, advises Donald Miller in “How To Tell Your Brand’s Story” (Entrepreneur, April 2025). Happy Wolf kids’ snack bars, made from real, whole foods, need to be refrigerated, not kept in a pantry, so they used the tag line “Real food has to live in the fridge“, turning what sounds like a drawback into a positive differentiator. “Most of us are so deep in the trenches in what we sell that we haven’t gotten our head around that one basic idea that will attract people to us,” Miller says; that real-food-has-to-live-in-the-fridge is precisely the type of “sound bite” any provider needs need to find and use in promoting – and differentiating –  a product or service.

Annoyance can be turned to our advantage in content writing. One way to form a bond with customers is by commiserating about their daily pain, identifying something that customers hate, empathizing with them, and then offering solutions. People generally don’t like to have their assertions and assumptions challenged, told that something they’d taken for granted is in fact a lie, but empathizing with prospects’ annoyance without putting them “in the wrong” is the sweet spot for which writers need to aim. “The real-food-has-to-live-in-the-fridge” line flies in the face of a delicate “compromise” approach.

“Whatever your situation, Say It For You helps your company or organization create and maintain a weekly blog and/or a monthly newsletter.  We create content based on a combination of our independent research and interviews with you, your staff, and your customers/clients.”

For business owners and professional practitioners needing content marketing help, our Unique Selling Proposition is that the content is not created using Artificial Intelligence (AI). Is such an individualized approach to content creation more time-consuming? To be sure. More expensive (as compared with DIY- using- AI? Certainly. But those very “disadvantages” enable Say It For You to assign content copyrights to the actual providers of the products and services.

You might say that “real copy has to live where the product is being sold and the service is being provided”.

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How Do We Know What We Know and Let Them Know It?

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How do we learn to string words together into statements? How do we know to say “I don’t have much money”, but that the opposite is not “I have much money”? How do we know that “a picture of Paul” and “a picture of Paul’s” mean totally different things? In his piece in the March issue of the Mensa Bulletin, Richard Lederer ponders these language mysteries. Think about it, he urges. Why do we say “the bicycle is next to the building”, but never “the building is next to the bicycle”?

“In marketing, language is a key tool for influencing, persuading, and manipulating an audience,” writes Sambuno. Through language, marketers create messages that are tailored to the specific target audience in order to elicit a desired response.

  • a car company might use language that appeals to the emotion of safety and security when targeting parents who are car shopping for their families.
  • a fashion company might use language that appeals to the desire for self-expression when targeting young adults.

Marketers can craft a powerful emotional bond with the audience through carefully selected language. We may not know precisely why “I have much money” sounds funny, but grammar matters in content marketing. “When you publish content with grammar mistakes, you risk affecting your reputation, search engine rankings, and even conversion rates,” SEO.com explains. “While some grammar errors won’t affect communication, others will force people to re-read your content or guess what you’re trying to say.”

On the other hand…. (I enjoyed reading this dissenting commentary on the subject of perfect grammar): “Nobody cares how well-written it is, unless it solves a real problem, or who wrote the article, as long as it makes sense.”

While, at Say It For You, I reassure content writers that, if their marketing blog posts are filled with valuable, relevant, and engaging material, the fact they wrote  “a lot” when they should have said “many” or substituted “your” for “you’re” isn’t going to be a content marketing deal breaker.

We’re out to focus readers’ attention on the bicycle or the building, not on which is next to which!

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Either Way, a Good Bottle is a Good Bottle

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For the average wine drinker, it’s a no-big-deal thing, but for serious aficionados of Champagne and for those in the wine industry, Alison Napjus points out in Wine Spectator, there’s an important distinction:

While small grower producers, or “RMs”, source their grapes only from vineyards they own ,” negociants”, or ” NMs”, purchase their grapes from different villages and subzones. Connoisseurs (“wine snobs”?) might value RM products, but transferring ownership of land among family members is “prohibitively expensive” under French law, Napius points out, and RMs have trouble meeting demand. NMs, meanwhile, have begun paying closer attention to viticulture in their own vineyards.

The result of all this supply/demand push-pull is that the ” perfect” Champagne product today is neither an RM nor an NM, the author explains. Consumers are really just looking for a steady supply of quality Champagne. “At the end of the day, it’s what’s in the glass that matters, not the code on the label,” the author concludes.

The same observation might be made in my field of content marketing, I couldn’t help thinking. “Content marketing works by capturing the attention of your desired audience members and helping them address their informational and task-oriented needs,” Jodi Harris of the Content Marketing Institute explains.

  • Prefer to use straightforward or “Huh? Oh!” titles for blog posts? Doesn’t matter, so long as, in the body of the post, you deliver on headline’s promise.
  • Whether you post content once a week or once a month, consistency helps build trust with your audience.
  • Statistics can be used to demonstrate the extent of a problem or to provide data about products and services a company offers. Either way, when presented effectively, numbers can move readers to make decisions.
  • “Jargon”, industry or profession-unique terminology can be used judiciously by content writers for explaining and defining a point, or simply as a way to establish common ground with a select audience.

Either way, a good piece of content is a good piece of content!

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